A little known Bible story with a valuable lesson demonstrates the difference between leading through influence over authority.
It is found in 2 Kings 11-13 and 2 Chronicles 24:15-22 and has a Grimm’s Fairy Tale quality to it.
Here’s a summary:
Athaliah, the wicked queen mother of king Ahaziah, seizes the throne of Judah when king Ahaziah is assassinated. And she kills all possible heirs to secure her rule. Except one infant heir, Joash, is whisked away. And he’s hidden in the temple and raised by Johioada the priest.
However, when Joash turns seven, Johoiada hails him king in an orchestrated, public event. And queen Athaliah is seized and put to death.
Joash is now in supreme power. But it is the influence of Jehoiada the priest that governs how he rules.
Joash did what was right in the eyes of the Lord all the years Jehoiada the priest instructed him. (ESV, 2 Kings 12:3)
But there’s a surprise ending. Because after Jehoiada dies, Joash morally degrades into a wicked king and eventually assassinated.
Authority Comes By Position, Influence Comes Through Relationship
There’s a subtle but crucial difference in leading through influence over authority. Especially when it comes to building a healthy team and organization.
Whenever you possess authority and in command. It doesn’t mean you command allegiance. Or guarantee your followers will fully and enthusiastically carry out your decisions.
And if your followers don’t actually follow you then your organization is going nowhere. Because teamwork and unity you need to develop requires trust and genuine relationships in order to exert influence.
Strength Of Character And Relationship Impact Your Level Of Influence
The inference is there. Jehoiada was like a father to Joash. He loved him and raised him like a son.
Furthermore, Jehoiada also loved and served God. Obeyed God’s teachings. Exhibited Godly character. And all of it rubbed off on Joash.
Since Jehoiada wanted to please and serve God, Joash wanted to please and serve God too.
A similar story is found in John 1:40-51. One of the first disciples Jesus called was Andrew. And right away, he finds his brother, Peter, and introduce him to Jesus too.
Peter…the guy Jesus called a rock. Who became a significant leader in the Christian movement and influence on the church. But it was his brother who influenced him first,
Would Peter have still met Jesus if it weren’t for Andrew? Maybe. But Andrew’s influence radically changed the course of Peter’s life. And Peter’s influence profoundly affects the Christian church today.
So who is in your sphere of influence? What relationships should you develop and personal character traits should you address?
The strength of Jehoiada’s character impacted Joash and will do the same for those you influence. Furthermore, you don’t need authority to use it. Jehoiada the priest had no power or authority. But his influence impacted the welfare of an entire kingdom. Andrew’s influence impacted an entire religion.
And your influence might be more powerful than you think.
Something to think about.
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I read about influence because it’s important in my work as a freelance copywriter. And I understand how it applies to advertising, marketing communications, and public relations. But I was recently reminded it has a much broader application. It’s a lesson I will never forget.
My family and I attended the opening ceremony of a new conference building at the Indiana State Baptist Assembly. The event included dedicating a children’s resource/conference room in the name of my late mother-in-law, Diane Phillips. She died of cancer a few years ago after devoting her life to Children’s Ministry.
The room was breathtakingly beautiful. Its paneled walls a glossy, cherry stained wood that demonstrated expert craftsmanship. We learned that volunteers worked hundreds of hours to cut down, mill, and finish the wood from trees on the camps’ property.
After the award presentation, a woman from the state Baptist office approached us. She explained that she had never met Diane, but had observed the volunteers who worked on the room. The time they invested, the loyalty they demonstrated, and the loving way they labored in Diane’s honor convinced her that Diane was a remarkable woman who exerted a significant influence on others. And it would continue through the resource room that would assist ministry.
As I’ve reflected on what she said, I’ve wondered.
Does my influence mostly direct attention to myself as an authority in order to promote my business? Or does it extend significantly further towards something of greater, intrinsic worth?
Here’s what I’ve learned from the experience.
The path to significant influence is anchored in a significant source.
Diane was a recognized expert in Children’s ministry. She was a featured speaker at both the state and national level. The knowledge and insight she shared at conferences and seminars helped other pastors improve in Children’s Ministry. But the source of her influence was not from her own expertise or authority. But her commitment and passion to a greater cause—her faith in Jesus Christ.
Rather than draw attention to herself, she directed it towards her Savior and Lord. And her influence inspired in others a shared vision that went beyond her. So those volunteers who labored so loyally on that room were not just working to honor Diane. They were partners in ministry working to honor the God she served. Diane’s life on earth is over, but those she influenced carry on the vision she inspired in them. To me that’s pretty significant.
The path to significant influence is marked by lasting values.
Diane was unpretentious. But I’m certain she would have appreciated the practical nature of the conference/resource room that was dedicated in her honor. It represents a practical tool in a ministry that she valued. Because her commitment and passion was contagious, it influenced others by shaping in them similar values.
This is significant because…
The real impact of Diane’s life, of anyone’s life for that matter, is measured by the influence their values have another’s character. Very few physical achievements will make a positive impact beyond one generation. But positive values can influence and impact one generation after another. Consider the power of this value that has been handed down for 2,000 years:
Do to others as you would have them do to you.
Regardless of your religious convictions and beliefs about life after death, we share a universal reality. There’s only one thing of real significance that remains when you’re gone—people. That’s where your influence will have its most lasting effect.
The path to significant influence is most powerfully affected by personal presence.
Social media is big. And it’s a powerful tool for driving influence. But it pales in size next to your personal presence. Diane never wrote a book or a blog. Instead, she wove her influence into many lives through inter-personal communication and one on one interaction. The take away? Your most profound and lasting influence will be on those who are closest to you.
Why?
Because they know the real you. How you react when someone cuts you off in traffic…what you say when you smash your finger…the things you watch and read. You know…the person you are when you think nobody’s watching…BUT THEY ARE. The people closest to you validate your authenticity and even more…reflect it in their lives.
So write blogs, publish books, and impart wisdom and advice in snippets on social media. But keep in mind that none of it compares to the power of your presence. It’s caught more than taught by your real authenticity. And as your influence rubs off on others, it is demonstrated in their lives. And so on…and so on.
So anchor you influence in a significant source, mark it with lasting value, and engage not just with your words, but with your personal presence. It will add significance to your life now and for generations to come. That’s what Diane did with her life. It’s what I’d like to do with mine. How about you?
About Chip Tudor:
Chip Tudor is an author, blogger and professional writer. He publishes books, humorous Christian drama, and thought provoking blogs from a Christian worldview.This blog is originally published here.
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